Relationship Problems~~~

I'm here again.....

Just reply an email to my good fren, Yanhong, in Australia.... She went there to study, at University of Queensland..... Sooooo envious.......

From the email she sent mi, looks like there are alot of problems going on.... She went there with 2 of her poly frenz (she is my secondary sch classmates) and rent an apartment....

Now, she is having trouble with her boyfriend who is in Singapore, going through army.... I noe what ppl will say.... "Aiya... the relationship won't last one lah... Cannot c each other....." This.... I cannot comment lah... It all depends on the couple love for each other... It is not for us outsider to say.....

In Australia, she meet some guys from Singapore going there to study too... (Trouble brewing) As they are in a foreign country, the two groups of cos will mix together..... They will go out together, etc.... Once, my frenz group went over to the guys frenz house for dinner as they are cooking curry..... It is like a group of ppl who misses home and bond together.....

But, my fren bf upon knowing it, he forbid my fren to go to the guys house and even go out with them..... (It is soooo unreasonable rite.....) He say that y she trust the guys so much, so as to go over to their hse.... Dun she think it is dangerous to go over to guys hse??? Yeah, i noe that what he say is for my fren good.... But den she is not 3 years old kid rite... She noe how to differentiate between good and bad guys...... And her bf (let's give him a name.... XM??) dun even allow her to take photos with the guys.... Because....... He is afraid that they will post it on net..... (-_-)"

Maybe XM is feeling insecure as he is in Singapore and my fren in Australia... He cannot c her.... wat she is doing..... And like most guy, he tinks that gf shouldn't have any guys frenz.... (which i think is bull shit!!) He should trust her more.... If they like each other, their relationship should be strong enough to endure anything.... He even trust her to go oversea for study.... So y not continue with the trust???

Den worse of all, YH fren, keep "jia you, jia chu", tell my fren that XM shouldn't restrict her so much and say that it is beta to break if it continues...... At that time, my fren,YH, is already very tired with the quarrels and she is easily influenced by this fren of her..... So..... She call XM but she can't say the words as she noes that she still love XM.... But her (idoit) frenz keep shout at her side sooo XM hears it and wan to break up.....

Luckily, after that they make up...... But YH start to keep a distance from her fren as she scare that they will influence her to do silly things again....They are living together... How to keep a distance??? U need to have frenz rite??? Esp in a foreign country.....

When XM tok to YH's fren, she told him that she is the one who initates going out with the guys (take the blame in other words).... Ok.... You may tink that she is not so bad..... But.... She actually tell her family about it and say that she is stupid to help a frenz so much.... And her familky agree with her and wanted her to move out.... But she insist on staying there as she promise XM to take care of my frenz...... (-_-)"

She is the one who wants to get involve.... A relationship onli consider of 2 ppl.... Not 3.... Ok... Even if my frenz consulted her... But she also cannot tok too much..... U should try to be neutral and just give ur opinion, not asking her how to do and in terms, pressure her.....

Conclusion: Guys, be more trustful in a relationship... It is a very very important factor...
Girls, Try not to get too involve in other ppl relationship... It is none of ur business.... Dun be too busybody (although it is a woman's nature, but dun be too extreme)....